Privilege?

Watched “Made in Dagenham last night.. it’s about the Ford machinists strike in 1968, which led to legislation being passed in the U.K. for equal pay for women. Good movie – go and watch it. πŸ™‚

This clip made me think. It’s not something that I’ve really verbalised, but it’s something that I’ve come across too many times – men who seem to think that the fact they don’t booze, whore and beat their wives and kids means that those wives/kids should be eternally gratefulΒ – and show that gratitude somehow. Sometimes it’s a subtle, possibly not even recognised way of thinking. Sometimes it’s almost a threat – keep in line, woman, or I’ll start doing all those things (and it’ll be YOUR fault)
I have a hubby who is a good man. He does none of those things, and would never think of doing so. Yes – I am thankful. But that is not based on his “sainthood”, or that he’s somehow restraining himself from some sort of more “normal” male response. That’s because I know, and have seen, what some of the alternatives can be.
It’s like the clip above says. Having a partner who treats you like an equal human being, with respect and love, is a right. Not a privilege.

And that’s as it should be.

Published in: on August 20, 2013 at 7:27 pm  Comments (4)  

Books..

You can never have too many πŸ˜€

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A while back, Hubby was speaking to a friend with a son who is a reluctant reader. He suggested a parent reading out loud before bedtime as a way of fostering interest in books… seems son now can’t wait for the latest chapter, and is on the edge of his seat waiting to see what comes next – even if he’s seen the movie based from that book πŸ˜€

I don’t think books will ever go out of fashion…

Published in: on August 19, 2013 at 11:13 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Smile! (And Dance!)

Enjoy this slice of sunshine πŸ˜€
A heartwarming story, and a beautiful family dynamic…
And the dancing!
(I have to admit, there were moments when I thought, “Morrissey on speed”)…
..but – catch the happiness! πŸ˜€

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Misnomer

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… but sometimes I have days like that..

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Coffee Night

Out for a coffee tonight (or rather – hot chocolate and chai tea..) We haven’t been able to go for a while…tried last week, but everything that could go wrong, went wrong. Tonight we had a bit more time to play with, so we enjoyed it πŸ˜€

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My gorgeous hot chocolate, with gooey, melty marshmallows included..

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The scenery.
It was quiet tonight – not too good for the vendors at the street markets, but nice for us. πŸ˜€

Published in: on August 16, 2013 at 8:15 pm  Leave a Comment  

Rhyme Of Another Summer

I think that Australia has forgotten, for the past few days, that it’s winter. Yesterday was thunderclouds and rain (although not too much..) and today has continued a run of bright, fairly hot, summery weather… middish 20s Celsius, predicted 27 – 29 degrees on the weekend. It’s like the earth is breathless, waiting for growth and light…
I was browsing some music, and came across a track from the soundtrack for “Amelie”..

It’s called “Comptine d’un autre ete:L’apres midi”, which translates as “Rhyme of another summer: after noon”. The beautiful visuals from the video I originally linked to are from a documentary called “Planet Earth”, but that was taken down. Maybe listen to this one with your eyes closed, and think of mist and languid light?

Just right for our topsy-turvey season..

Published in: on August 15, 2013 at 10:26 pm  Comments (2)  
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Through Time And Space!

I had something else entirely planned for today…
But then I found THIS!!! (click here πŸ˜€ )

Ever wanted to look round the TARDIS a bit?
Click on the double white arrows once you’re on the street view map..

You’re welcome πŸ˜€

Published in: on August 14, 2013 at 9:44 pm  Leave a Comment  
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In Search Of England

So, I watched an episode of Midsomer Murders last night, after getting nostalgic… it seems the programme could be seen as one of Britain’s best exports, in part because of its evocation of “rural England”. The body count may not be strictly authentic to the real U.K….

Anyone have those books that you buy but never get around to reading? I tend to get stacks at charity shops, then often can’t find the time to actually read them. This was especially bad with some shops in England – I would regularly go looking, and find books for 10 or 20p … cheap enough to buy, and then keep, or donate back to the shop on the next clearout..

One of the books I’ve had for a while is “In Search of England” by H.V.Morton. I’ve been stuck in bed most of the day, so it seemed an ideal time to have a look…
A basic Google search reveals that the author may not have been the cheerful chappy he portrays himself to be in the text; nevertheless, I’ve been enjoying my reading. The book was published in 1927, and reflects the time after the Great War, the One to end all wars, when the world changed… there seems to be sense of hopefulness, a collective sigh that the worst was over, and things could get better. There is no hint of the coming of that next war, when the world changed again…

The book starts from London, then moves through to Hampshire, to places that I know. I could walk through Winchester to the cathedral with him, and stand at the Bargate in Southampton… there are stories that I remember about these places, and some that I had forgotten – that Richard the Lionheart sailed to the Crusades from Southampton, or the story of the townspeople of Romsey buying the Abbey from Henry VIII, to save it from being demolished in the dissolution of the monasteries. In some ways, the narrative is almost alien – there were no backpackers and hostels then, and cars were still a rarity in places. A good evening’s entertainment could be listening to the wireless, in the front room of the one man in the village to have one… there are echoes of history that seem contemporary as well – places like Stonehenge, or traces of long-dead villages, just as ancient in the beginning of the last century as they are now.

Perhaps the book is not a strictly truthful retelling of the journey. Perhaps it just reflects the England that we want to remember. I don’t know…. There is a sense of wonder and discovery to the writing – beautiful word paintings of a time long gone, but could still, maybe, be seen out of the corner of an eye, when the light is right…

Here’s a bit of a picture –
“…the next thing (I saw) was a village that was trying to climb a hill. One whitewashed cottage had reached the top, but all the others had stuck half-way, with their gardens gazing in a rather surprised manner over their chimney pots.”

…or this quote capturing the “stiff upper lip” of a young woman who lived alone in the ruins of Beaulieu Abbey, a place widely believed to be haunted, especially during the night –
“Things do happen, of course,” said Miss Cheshire in a matter-of-fact voice, “but I won’t have anything to do with them. I just turn over and go to sleep.”
The “things” she’s talking about are footsteps, keys in locks, choirs and voices in a place where there are no other inhabitants…

I haven’t finished reading the book. Perhaps it is mostly a fabricated documentary…. but it feels like I’m seeing the scenes before me as I read. I like that.

Published in: on August 13, 2013 at 11:28 pm  Comments (2)  
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Ginger, Please!

So, I’m sick again. It’s been a few weeks now of spiralling round the health mountain – just when I think it’s all coming good, I catch something else. Today it’s sniffles/blocked nose (again) with a side order of sore throat. Yay, me.

As tempting as it was, I didn’t go for copious cups of milky coffee (the lazy choice..) I have herbs in the cupboard that are useful for colds/flu, so I made a teapot full to sip… you know what else is really nice in a tea? Just grab a biggish chunk (to taste..) of ginger and grate it into the teapot, then finish with a good splodge of Manuka honey.. good for the cold (and you!), and really tasty, too – I found it soothing as well. If you’re just making your tea with ginger and honey, you can chew the ginger bits left over as well, if you like πŸ™‚

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Here’s my teapot. I chose the cup because that’s how I felt today…

I know I’m getting a bit run down when I start dissolving into tears at nothing… I was watching Doctor Who today (The Christmas Invasion) and started snuffling because they were in ENGLAND, and I CAN”T GO THERE!! *sniffle* I’m off to watch a bit of Midsomer Murders now…

Published in: on August 12, 2013 at 8:28 pm  Comments (3)  
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Dickinson And Yeats

Sounds a bit like a 70s cop show πŸ˜€

I’ve been browsing a bit of poetry… there are many over the years that have meant something to me, either for specific reasons, or just because they seem timeless… Here’s a couple that I still enjoy..

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Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all,
Β 
And sweetest in the gale is heard;
And sore must be the storm
That could abash the little bird
That kept so many warm.
Β 
I’ve heard it in the chillest land,
And on the strangest sea;
Yet, never, in extremity,
It asked a crumb of me.
– Emily Dickinson
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When you are old and grey and full of sleep,
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;

How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true,
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face;

And bending down beside the glowing bars,
Murmur, a little sadly, how Love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead
And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.

– W. B. Yeats

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Who’s your favourite poet? πŸ˜€
Published in: on August 11, 2013 at 11:00 pm  Comments (3)  
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