It’s Beginning…

…to look a lot like Christmas! 😀

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The boys get to do the bottom two-thirds of the tree, leaving the top for me. That’s where the glass ornaments go, and I always put the angel on the top.

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Isn’t she lovely?
I’ve placed her on the top of the tree every year for the last 24 years now.

I love that the boys still get excited about decorating the tree 😀 Every year they get so much older, but I still get a glimpse of my little boys at Christmas…
We’re almost finished with the shopping. Some things need to be bought new (sweets for the stockings, for example) but the bulk of our gifts are from charity shops, second hand places and garage sales. I never know what I’ll find!
Time for a rest and a cuppa now.
Merry Christmas!

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Published in: on December 13, 2018 at 4:19 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Rhapsodising

We went to see Bohemian Rhapsody earlier in the week. Loved it! Here’s the trailer – watch it and then go see the film. 😀

We took Sweet Bean along, even though it was still school time, and he had some exam/assessment work to do (which he finished well by the end of the week). We had the chance to go, so we took it – I’m putting it down as music history 😉

It’s an experience. We went in the afternoon. This was the cinema when we went in –

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We did get some companions by the time it started. Only around ten people. That’s one of the perks of going during the day in term time…
This was the first time in a long time I’ve been to the cinema where everybody has stayed in their seats until the credits finished – no-one wanted to go.
One question for anyone who goes to see it – how long did you last until you began to sing along? I held out till this…

I may also have cried…

Published in: on December 9, 2018 at 9:20 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Giving Twice

Merry Christmas!

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I know it’s still November. Sorry.

As some of our gifts need to be sent overseas we’re in the process of sorting them out. For the past few years we have sent the sort of gifts that aren’t really gifts, as such, to the recipient of the cards – chickens and vegie seeds and mosquito nets, health and education and livelihood gifts that are sent to those who need them, with a card sent to family to tell them what’s been given 😀

There are a lot of different organisations you can get these from. Here’s some we’ve used in the past or may use in the future – now is the time to give if you want to send cards on in time for Christmas!

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These are some of the paper ones I’ve received this year, but catalogues can be found (and ordered from) online.
Compassion is a child sponsorship programme, so there is always the option to sponsor a child – any time of the year! Tear Fund partners with local Christian development organisations to help people across Africa, Asia and the Pacific to lead their own development initiatives. The catalogues for both of them are good places to go if you want to provide gardens, livestock or health and education initiatives for those who need them.
Oxfam is a great place to go for the same type of things. They also sell fair trade goods online or in shops if you’d prefer giving a physical gift – you should be able to get the cards in store as well.
Mercy Ships gift catalogue provides physical gifts such as t-shirts, mugs or a lovely looking necklace, with proceeds going to fund free, world-class surgical and other health care through hospital ships.
International Justice Mission (IJM) works to end slavery of all types by partnering with law and social work professionals across the world to restore justice to the poor. Choosing a gift from their catalogue means you are helping to rescue a victim of slavery or sex trafficking and helping provide aftercare so they can find a better future.

All of the links (click on the brownish text) are Australian based – look for these organisations in your own region if you’re interested. This next catalogue is based in Britain, but we have used it before. I liked the Good Gifts catalogue when I first saw it because there were different sorts of gifts from the other catalogues, encompassing other countries as well as tackling poverty in Britain. This year’s catalogue includes gifts such as destroying weapons left in recent war zones, funding a 3-year degree course for an African or providing a visit to a theatre, opera or concert for a child who would never otherwise have the chance. There are also environmental gifts such as funding a stretch of hedgerow or helping clean the ocean of plastic.

A lot of charities have Christmas catalogues, so it’s worth checking your favourites. Even if they don’t have specific Christmas gifts you could try donating on behalf of others and sending your own card to let them know. This also holds true for other occasions throughout the year – and remember you can always donate at any time, either a one off or regularly 😀

Cold Day

No, not the weather! Although I have had the air conditioner on for a little bit tonight… I’ve had a bit of a cold this week, which got better mid week, then mutated to a minor chest infection over the last two days. This has meant I haven’t done anything too strenuous lately – just catching up with some stuff. Not the mending. What is it about mending? The more I do, the more it seems to multiply when I’m not looking…
Part of my non-strenuosity(?) has been listening to some new (to me) music. For King & Country is playing at Riverlife Church  at the end of January – there were still tickets available as of today, but get them soon before they sell out! Here’s some songs.


I have also been trying to figure out what we need to organise before Christmas… I not only need to get my ducks in a row – I have to work out how many ducks I’m supposed to have! I’m looking forward to Christmas this year – just have to find where all the carol services are! 🙂
Another song to finish with – and good night ❤

Published in: on November 16, 2018 at 11:09 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Remembrance

1918 – 2018

Lest We Forget

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In Flanders Fields

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

John McCrae

Published in: on November 11, 2018 at 2:54 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Fourth Time’s The Charm…

Finally (finally!!) succeeded with my mending. When I stopped to think about it I realised that this is the fourth time I’ve tried various ways to fix it, without success (until now). While I love to reuse and repurpose, sometimes it’s necessary to get something new. We went down to Spotlight this morning to get some heavy duty hooks and bars to replace the broken zipper from yesterday. We also got a packet of safety pins – why do safety pins seem to vanish? Do they go where pens and single socks go? Picked up a latte with Turkish Deight syrup as a treat…

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One of the good things about using a Keep cup is that you tend to get slightly more than you would with a takeaway cup. Some places still refuse to use my cup, but most will… even so, they tend to overfill it. I don’t mind! 🙂
My day has been better than yesterday, but still climbing out of the abyss. The cream you can sort of see to the left of the cup is a hormonal balancing cream I used to use all the time, but haven’t been able to afford for a while. Got some this morning – slathered it on straight away. The boys are calling it my “happy cream”…

My fingers are quite sore from all the sewing, and there will be more to do – just not today! I sat on the patio with it and listened to music – some old, some new – just taking YouTube’s suggestions to see what I could find.
This one I knew, but it suited this morning.

I had never heard of these, but enjoyed what I heard.

The sun is setting. Time to rest.

Published in: on November 10, 2018 at 6:11 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Temporary/Perfect

You know when you’re strolling effortlessly along a straight, grassy, flower-strewn verge and then suddenly – huge pothole. Quicksand. Mire.
Today’s been one of those days. No reason, really – just feeling down and flat. I spent ages this afternoon mending something I really want to wear again – it was fiddly, with difficult edges and sometimes nearly impenetrable fabric. I finally finished, tried it on, and found the zipper was too flimsy (and old – it had been repurposed) and it broke.
I may have thrown a minor tantrum.
An adult, dignified, fairly restrained tantrum, but I was Not Best Pleased.
Nevertheless, I know that this mood is temporary. It may change tomorrow, it may take a few days, but I know that underneath my life is Good. Just look at this blue sky!

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That’s what I saw on my walk yesterday – playful, dancing clouds and a sky that stays bright regardless of my concerns. There’s always beauty. I just have to remember to look.

Nothing is ever completely perfect in this world, but some things strive to attain it. In the depths of my grumpiness this afternoon I heard this again…

Life is a mixture of highs and lows. Sometimes the zipper breaks. Sometimes there’s opera. The clouds still dance, and the birds still sing. It just might take till tomorrow to see it…

Published in: on November 9, 2018 at 8:45 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Pe-e-e-egs!

Not quite sure what it says about me, but I was extremely excited to get some new pegs (and a peg bag) today – now it will be easy to colour co-ordinate all my washing when I hang it out!

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Also – fly swats! With the recent heat has come a multitude of flies. It doesn’t matter how careful we are to keep doors and windows closed – they still get in… Today was another sweltering day, with unexpected breezes at random intervals. We went to Rafter and Rose this morning for coffee and cheesecake, but had to sit outside as there were no seats in the (airconditioned) interior… we were the only ones out there, though.

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Worth it! 🙂

We used the time to discuss and plan – Christmas, curriculum…
We also made friends with the resident lizard, Kenny.

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Hi, Kenny! 🙂

Looking forward to a cool change tomorrow…

Published in: on November 7, 2018 at 9:12 pm  Leave a Comment  

Enjoying A Day Of Wellbeing

Today was a day of languor and industry, interspersed with coffee and old movies (we’re watching “Summer Holiday” at the moment). I had intended to work on the mending that’s been sitting around for a while. I ended up weeding the planter boxes instead…

Here’s some more thoughts from Wellbeing magazine – it’s been that sort of day!

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Nourish – provide with the food or other substances necessary for growth, health, and good condition

Soaking in a bath is one of my favourite nourishing activities 🙂 Sometimes it’s just sitting reading a book for a bit, though – or making sure to eat well and get enough sleep. Different things to different people…

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Reflection – the return of light and sound waves from a surface, a thought, idea or opinion formed or a remark made as a result of meditation.

Being still often leads to reflection – leaving the space to reflect thoughts from the surface of our mind or life helps to refine ideas and opinions.

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Resilience – an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change, the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape, elasticity.

Another necessity of life, but often we wear ourselves down by doing too much and taking on more than we need to – then shattering rather than bouncing back.

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Companionship – the fellowship existing among companions, the good feeling that comes from being with someone else.

We all need those people (or animals!) around us with whom we feel able to be ourselves – however weird and wonderful that may be 🙂 Good thing there’s always someone out there who fits the bill – even if it sometimes takes time to find them!

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Partnership – the state of being a partner or partners.

A step or two on from companionship, and well worth finding. Regardless of how sociable we naturally are, we all seem to be built for deeper connections…

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Flow – to issue or move in a stream, to move with a continual change of place among the constituent particles, to proceed smoothly or readily.

Sometimes time slows down and anything seems possible. Who knows what might flow then?

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Surrender – to give (oneself) over to something (such as an influence)

Relax. Sink in. Sleep peacefully.

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Smile – to produce or exhibit a smile, to bestow approval, to appear pleasant or agreeable.

Shine, and be beautiful.

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Intention – a thing intended, an aim or a plan, a determination to act in a certain way.

Slowing down and being alone with your thoughts can mean being confronted with the realisation that your life has lost direction – that everything you do is just reaction to events, and there’s no time to catch your breath. It’s never too late to set your intention and start moving towards what’s important to you!

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Perspective – a mental view or prospect.

There’s always a bright side somewhere – regardless of the size of the clouds.

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😀

And finally – a word from Oprah

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Published in: on November 3, 2018 at 9:44 pm  Leave a Comment  
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Rising Up

Just been watching the third episode of the new series of Doctor Who, where they interact with Rosa Parks, and ultimately ensure that history is made in spite of alien shenanigans…
I was intitially a little skeptical that it would turn out well – there are so many ways it could have been handled badly. Thoroughly enjoyed it 🙂

My post title comes from the end credits, and a song that fits well with Rosa’s story. It wasn’t written for the show – it’s a few years old, and has become an unofficial anthem for the Black Lives Matter movement.

I’ve really been enjoying this new series. It’s different in a lot of ways (and also the same in many). I can’t quite put my finger on just how it’s different… obviously different writer, and that shows. The companions seem to be more prominent in the storylines than we’ve seen before, and I think that’s working well. Mostly, with this episode, we got a bit of a history lesson (a concept that I believe was part of the very early origins of the show), and perhaps a bit of a reminder for the future…
“Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” – George Santayana
Perhaps it’s time to look around and take stock of where we stand right now?

Published in: on October 22, 2018 at 9:02 pm  Leave a Comment  
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